I think we all have in our minds and hearts a plan of how we want our lives to go. I know I did. I wanted more than anything to be married and have children. My second goal was to become a nurse, but it wasn’t as big of a goal as becoming a mother. I did go to nursing school and was close to being finished but during school I got married and pregnant and I quit school because I was going to be a MOTHER. I was thrilled.